hello. so i’m fairly new to online dating maybe 4 months or so. I’m an accordion player and I have it on my profile not to show off but like listed as hobbies I put “music (I play accordion)” or something like that. I don’t get any likes , messages or anything and i’m starting to really question what the heck is going on and i’m wondering if this has anything to do with it. i’m on about 5 different sites and on all of them nothing. the best I have done so far is talking with someone on their Instagram account they linked and then this being the convo

me – “hey i’m the guy who messaged earlier on hily. how ya doing? hope to hear back from you :)”

her – “Oh hey I’m all right thanks”

me – “oh hey 🙂 I’m not gonna lie I’m surprised that worked lol. so my hobbies include music (i’m a 2 yr self taught accordionist.) video games and watching youtube if that counts. what about you? what are your interests?”

her – “Being lazy😂”

me – “lol at least you are honest 🙂 sry for a late response I’ve been busy gotta be something you are interested in. lol go for it I won’t judge.”

and this was it. the reason I asked you gotta be interested in something is if i’m trying to have a proper conversation with this person and they only give short answers then it’s not gonna go anywhere. and as for a late response it was the same day but a few or more hours l8r.

as for my accounts it’s not like I use any filters at all. they are lit up well (as far as I can tell. I don’t usually take selfies)

the pictures aren’t all of me playing accordion. there’s only one of 5 so it’s not like again i’m trying to show off. but yeah i’m really stuck as to what is going on. I don’t have the impression that i’m the worlds most attractive guy but 5 sites and no results ? i’m stumped

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thanks