Author Archive: /u/CommeDeuxGouttesDeau

I feel like she wants me to ask her to be her Girlfriend, but also feel like she wants to wait for some reason…

22M and met 22F on Hinge. Talked on the phone for 20+ hours over 2 weeks. Then have spent 3 half day dates together.


I’ve never dated so idk the “progression” to being LTR as BF/GF.

She’s brought up multiple times how she “sees me in her future” and “can’t wait to date” and “thinks we will be a cute couple” and “would love to be my GF”.

It seems she uses “date” interchangeable with “SO/GF/BF”. We are not seeing anyone else. We are both really into each other and wanna keep seeing and will with more and more dates. To me this is literally “dating”. Right?

We have progressed sexually but No sex until we are “official”.


My question is “what’s the difference between what we are NOW and actually dating or being GF/BF?”, Because to me it seems like we are already in that state. Sure we are in quaranntine and can’t do too much but I’ve spent 40+ hours with her and continue to see her. Sex doesn’t make it official and we arent going to be “seeing” anyone else.

Does she wanna get to know me more before dating? I thought that was the process? 3-5 dates (not counting anything prior) then becoming BF/GF and then continuing to learn about each other as a new couple

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How do you learn how to be a better kisser?

22M, and tonight had first REAL kiss – not peck or anything. but prolonged kissing…

In the car and I was like “I’ve been thinking about kissing you all night” (idk this was probably dumb, but it worked – i mean we are into each other so idk) at first it was kinda awkward because we both turned out heads the same way and she laughed and was like “no other way”

I realized idk what the fuck I’m doing

As we got out of the car to say goodbye she hugged me and started kissing me again. her: “okay you gotta go” – hugs me again – “okay one more time” – starts kissing me again… this happened a few more times lol.

Again I’m realizing idk what I’m doing I’m just basically sucking on her top or bottom lip. During it I realized “oh shit I’m terrible at this”


But how do I know what I’m doing is good? outside of saying “hey you fucking like that?”

She ended up texting me that “I did not want to stop kissing you” – but she’s into me, that doesn’t tell me if what I’m doing is right.

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