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What should I do?

So, I (21M) matched with this beautiful girl (20F) with green eyes and brown hair on tinder. Got her number and we started texting. She was really into me… she said we would make a good couple and a lot of other things that made my anxious mind create big expectations.

All of a sudden, 2 days ago, she started to get distant, taking too long to respond (honestly, I don’t know if thats the case, or if it is just my anxiety sabotaging me).

Saturday she texted me “good morning <3”, I replied and she only answered at 10pm, saying she arrived from work and ended up sleeping, but I don’t know about that.. saw her online on instagram a lot during the day…

I’m insecure and anxious, so I got really upset and didn’t reply for 2 days… but I feel bad for that

Sent her a text this morning, 4 hours ago, no response so far…

She is on a business trip (thats part of the reason I didn’t text her before too)

She is one of the few girls I really feel some conection with, I really enjoy our conversations..

I want your opinion, did I do something wrong? should I have answered her text before? Should I tell her why I took long to reply?

Help me guys, I don’t wanna fuck things up again.

Thanks!

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