Author Archive: /u/Toruviiel

It hurts to realise you are not desirable.

Male, 27; I got a job, loads of hobbies, look after myself and am not the elephant man. No woman, online or off, gives me the time of day.

It’s a normal story for a lot of people, but after the amount of effort I’ve put in to improve this aspect of life then there’s only realisation I can come to; that I’m not the type of man that women find desirable, and that my luck will only change in the future when I’m more likely to get settled with.

That stings. A lot. I want to meet cool women, date, sex, eventually find a relationship. Many people are doing it. But I can’t. I’ll never know what it’s like for a woman to eye me up from across the room or really want to talk to me.

This is really an OffMyChest. Not much that can be said really.

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No luck with dating and need honest advice. Pictures within.

I’m making myself vulnerable here by posting this, so please be kind.

I have had incredibly bad luck dating. As in, I have no stories to tell about women showing interest in me, and dating apps are a waste of time because I’m lucky to get a match once in a blue moon. I’ve been trying to resolve this for a few years now, including therapy, with still no change. The feedback I get from people is generally positive; “attractive”, “people person”, “could get any girl you want”. Obviously, actions speak louder.

There are pics of me below. I could really do with female perspective, but anyone is welcome to offer advice. Since the stopping point to any attraction seems to be my appearance, I’m wondering what I’m doing wrong.

https://imgur.com/a/wFBHzgO

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