I’ve been battling a lot mentally, especially with feeling alone. My first ex and I recently had contact. We dated for a year between my senior year in HS and freshman year in college. She broke up with me and was immediately with someone new. They’ve stayed together and she’s having a kid soon.
My second ex and I were friends for 3yrs and dated 15 months long distance . Helped me past my first breakup by just being a true friend to we both helped each other. She was with someone new 3 weeks after we broke up, and they’ve been together for 2yrs. She recently reached back out to me to apologize for stuff etc.
It’s been tough not to think that I was just the wrong person. That they’re so much happier without me in the picture. Whatever we had wasn’t all that real because they were able to move onto another relationship so quickly and stay in that relationship longer than the one we were in.
There was this girl who came back into my life, things were great and now she’s just gone cold towards me after connecting again. I’ve decided to just drop whatever I thought was going on with her
I’ve been working out twice a day, talking to my friends a lot, and doing door dash to make some extra cash but I can’t get away from my thoughts or just feeling so alone. Is anyone else there with me? It’s just really tough and I’ve been feeling hollow at times. Like a bunch of issues I felt I worked through has resurfaced again.
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