So I’ve started taking tinder seriously recently and have actually started meeting up with people/going on dates. I’m looking for either a fwb or relationship situation because I really just want someone constant and stable. However, I can not seem to get a 2nd or 3rd date! When I meet up with the people I know they are attracted to me because they make it clear so it’s not like they think I’ve catfished them. Here are how my last couple of dates gone. 1. This was the first person I actually met off of tinder. Matched early in the year but didn’t message till late March. We went on a coffee date and hiked. We messed around a bit after but we didn’t have sex. He texted me he had a great time and added me on social media. I thought I got really lucky because he seemed super interested. Later the whole virus thing started to happen and he had to move back home which was about an hour away from where I go to college. We met up a second time when he had to pick up some stuff and we hooked up. He snapped me everyday for a week before he sent me a drunk text saying he missed me but after that he pretty much ghosted me and unadded me on snap but kept me on insta for some reason. 2. We talked for a couple of weeks and met up after having to reschedule a couple of times. He said he didn’t want to have sex but we still messed around a bit as well and he stayed to cuddle. When he was leaving he even gave me a hug a really cute forehead kiss so he seemed like he was into me. A couple hours after he left I decided to snap him and say I had a good time and if he’s free he should come by again (he even saved this message on snap for some reason). He said he had a good time and he’d let me know. A month has passed and he hasn’t messaged me until I remade my tinder and we rematched. He just sent me laughing emojis and I responded that I was surprised he rematched with me and he said “I like you” but after like 2 more messages he has stopped responding. 3. I only talked to this guy for a couple of days but I decided to hang out with him anyways. I went to his house to watch movies and of course that turned to making out but when we were going to hook up he said he didn’t have a condom but next time we could actually have sex. We chilled for a couple of minutes after then he practically kicked me out of his house.
Pretty much it seems like the guys like me at first but then they just never plan to hang out ever again. The last two guys haven’t unmatched me or unfollowed me on snap so I guess it’s not as bad as the first guy, but I definitely need help in understanding what I did wrong.
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