- He’s always asking to see you last minute
A man that is interested in you will make sure to make
time for you. However that time will be based around what is convenient for you
both not just him. When a man is calling you up last minute to spend time with
him, he’s trying to fit you in and see you when its convenient for him only. A guy
who respects you will also respect your time and make the effort to see you even
if you tell him a week in advance. Don’t accept the “let’s be spontaneous” line
and make sure he plans in advance when you both will spend time together.
- He’s promising you the world but his actions don’t match
A man’s favourite game is the charm offensive. He will
lay it on thick and heavy whenever he can because he knows that women love to
talk and the way to their hearts is through their ears. However if all he is
doing is talking and there are little to no real life actions to match his talk,
guess what, he’s wasting your time and taking you for a ride. A man is only as
good as his word, and yes sometimes charming a woman with promises of things he
doesn’t deliver is fine, if it’s all he’s doing, then run!
- He’s not introducing you to family or friends
If you have been with a man for around 6 months and
been high value but he’s not introducing you to friends and family, he is
wasting your time and hes not taking you seriously! A man that is considering a
future with a woman will introduce her to the most important people in his
life. Any excuses that he is giving for this not to happen are just that,
excuses. Move on and leave him, if he likes you enough he will come back and
step things up, if not, you’ve saved yourself a lot of precious time.
- He never invests in you
Yes we live in the age of 50/50. However when a man
really cares about you he will do his best to impress you, this includes paying
on dates and investing time and energy into you. He will always try and do more
since he is trying to win you over and have him like you, if he’s not then he’s
not that interested in you or trying to impress you.
- He only talks about himself
Men who care about you, care about getting to know
more about you! Your opinion and your hobbies and even your voice will be something
that he wants to listen to. If he is not actively trying to do any of these things
then its more than likely that it’s because he doesn’t care what you think or
about you that much! A guy who is always talking about himself has himself as
the centre of his world, this is something to think long and hard about when
you are deciding if you think thus man is good enough for you.
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