24f. So I’ve been talking to a boy I met through tinder for 2 months (writing paragraphs everyday) and we finally met up 2 weeks ago. The date went really well even though I had to send the first text after. I asked him if he would like a second date and he said “of course I do, thought I made it clear” which obviously put me in a good mood. We then plan to meet for the second date next week, he even offered to meet up early so we could get the most out of the day.
Recently he’s been taking ages to respond to my texts (I sent one at 4pm one day and he didn’t reply until 10am the next morning and said that he was drinking and fell asleep early) This has been a regular occurrence recently and I felt slightly bothered by it so I texted him asking where his head is at as I’m not used to texting someone that takes so long to reply to me and I wouldn’t want to waste my time. He messaged me back saying that he’s sometimes bad texter and likes to enjoy the moment without having pressure to text someone back, but it doesn’t mean that he isn’t feeling me and that he would tell me if he wasn’t as he doesn’t want to play mind games.
I was okay with his response but the slow texting keeps happening. Today I feel quite sad as I messaged him yesterday at 4pm and it’s now 2pm the following day and no reply. He’s been on his phone as he has viewed my Instagram story. I’m stuck in a rut because I like this guy and I have no reason to doubt that he likes me but I’m still bothered by it. My friends are telling me that we aren’t in a relationship so I shouldn’t feel so upset but I can’t help it as I’m pretty invested in the guy and I’m not the type of person that dates multiple people in one go. Do you think it’s reasonable how I’m feeling? Should I just ignore him back? What should I do?
Thank you xxx
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