Hello All!
So about 1 year ago I had a class with this dude who was totally the type of dude I looked for (physical appearance wise) I am 21 F and I am pretty sure he shouldn’t be more than 2 years older than me. Anyways …. In the beginning of the semester he would smile at me and such and act so shy and always looked and smile so I decide to one day approach him and act friendly and get to know him but he talked in short sentences and cold… I tried to talk to him 3 to 4 times in a friendly way (nothing flirty) but he acted cold and I was like whatever and I kinda stopped caring and wasn’t broken up about it or anything…. it was just like a whatever moment.
Anyways, cut to a year later (which I totally forgot about him) that I saw him on bumble and I was like wait omg so I swiped right and a week later he also swiped on me and matched. Since on bumble girls talk first I said a short sentence “hey weren’t u in my math class?!” And he ended up responding in like 15 minutes in a very enthusiastic way and like he wrote almost a paragraph about our class and also how he was just making a salad and blah blah blah…. anyways I was like shocked that he wrote a paragraph so since I couldn’t respond to him in one sentence I wrote like 4 or 5 sentences enthusiastically and then NO RESPONSE and it’s been a month ….
I told my friends about it and they said that everything I said and did were normal and he is the one who is acting kinda odd.. but now I’m sad Bc he’s literally physically what I look for in a man ? and like now that I know there is a possibility that he found me cute it makes it worse…. and I can’t think of any reason why he didn’t answer after typing a whole paragraph ? and I also don’t think I’ll see him again Bc we live in a large city and he graduated from my college back in 2019….
Do you guys think I’m crazy that I have been thinking about him a lot this past week? Also do you think he ghosted me ?
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