People in general nowadays seem really obsessed with finding the perfect person who meets their every need. That’s not realistic. Obviously your partner or potential partner is gonna slip up and be imperfect, but more than that, they’re gonna be flawed. For example, I am insanely insecure and I often need reassurance to feel wanted. I know it’s my problem, but I also know it’s not gonna go away, it’s something my partner and I deal with together. Do your best to realize your flaws and to compromise them as best you can. Don’t intentionally be a weight on your partner’s back, but trust them to be just fine carrying you along some of the time, and return that gesture in kind. As long as you and your partner can agree that the arrangement is mutually beneficial, you’re doing just fine.
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