Advice/I’m I overreacting?

So I need opinions on an experience that recently occurred to me. I feel like I’m wrong or I may have overreacted???? So I have been dating this person for about 8 months, two weeks ago after having sex I discovered a camera that was placed in the corner of the room. It was in a position were it recorded the entire room, I immediately became emotional because I felt super violated, unvalued, and played 🙁 When I asked him to show me the recordings he said “it doesn’t record unless I activate it through my phone”. I thought it was complete bs, but I decided to just let it go. The next day I woke up and the feeling was weighing super heavy on me, I decided to text him to see if he can meet me in person to discuss the situation, however he declined but agreed to meet the following day. The next day rolls around and we agreed to meet at 1pm, however he ends up flaking and no does not respond to my text. By the end of the night I felt super hurt and unfortunately I made the terrible decision to get drunk. I ended up threatening to sue him and asked to never contact me again. He responded immediately and kept apologizing for not responding earlier and said he had a “gnarly migraine”. To make matters worse!! My friend who I vented to ended up messaging him (which I didn’t know she did until the next morning) she pretty much told him to fuck off and that he was never welcomed around again. This made me even more disappointed because it added to the problem! The thing that is making me feel like maybe I overacted was because he kept saying that I was taking it way out of proportion, that it was ridiculous, that he would never do something like that (record without consent). I don’t even know what to do anymore, we never ended up discussing it in person and I’ve been trying to avoid contact with him. I obviously care for him very much and well with the actions that have taken place it’s been making me really sad. I don’t know if I should reach out or just close this chapter in my life? Please help.