Advice, is this a trap?

Hello, reddit. I'm (23M) in a situation that I don't know the nature and don't know how to handle.

I met a girl(25F)about a year ago and we got off quite well. I asked her out 8 months ago and I made clear during hiking that this is a date ( thru light touching and the way I talk etc.) But she responded little and we never went out a second date. But we are still nice acquaintance that very occasionally contact each other.

Fast forward several months later, we got close again through text message. I tried some flirting and asked her out for a dinner(we just reopened the restaurant). The dinner is this Sunday and hasn't happened yet. I'm of course psyched about that.

Last night, at 23:00 she was talking about she need to move out of college dorm room and needing a new place to stay. I own my own house through hardworking but I have lots of mortgage and the COVID is preventing me from a raise. So money is tight. She asked if she can move in with me and pay me rent. She then asked me if we can pick up furniture from IKEA together. My jaw dropped and I haven't responded yet.

My question: is this a trap? We haven't dated yet, why is she thinking about moving in with me already? Or, she is entirely unattracted by me and she is just trying to get a cheap room or worse planing getting the house in someway?

Somebody slap me with the truth please.

I'm a 5 and she is a 6.5 ( I think.) If that helps anyone. Never been a ladies killer in any shape or form.

PS: Apologize for the weird word choice, English is not my first language.

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