Am I (20F) too much of a “dude” to be desired by guys?

I know this is an unnecessary question because I should be how I am and not change for anyone yadda yadda but hear me out.

I’m the girl who always has more male friends and I always find an easier connection to males (not to make me sound special, it’s a fact). My humour is very dark, I know many references (From games, memes or even Reddit) that are quite uncommon among girls and I’m not afraid to talk about every topic, no matter how gross or private or “forbidden”. I don’t talk through the flower. I often feel like I’m adopting the talking style or the guys, like talking louder or more “reckless”.

I get along with girls and mostly guys because of those points above and it’s very nice, I like to make friends with whom I can be myself. And this is myself.

However, I noticed that many guys only see me as they bro, like one of them. This is great for being friends but I sometimes feel undesired because of this. Side note, I consider myself as not ugly at all so it can’t be that. I feel like everyone is getting boyfriends, FwB and flirt a lot, and I just can’t flirt. I feel weird and pretentious doing it, but I want to feel desired and I want to be able to talk to that hot dude properly, maybe even have some romantic build up.

I’m not looking for advice on how to change myself, but how to feel more confident as a woman and how to overcome those weird feelings. Is anyone familiar with that kind of problem?