Let me set the scene: – dated this guy for 6 months – I moved away so we broke up – we kept in touch for TWO YEARS and visited occasionally
So in total it’s been about a year since I’ve seen the guy mentioned above. We have kept in touch since I left and we’re still good friends.
My job transferred me to the city he now lives in for a 6month program. He was thrilled – couldn’t stop talking about how excited he was, planning things we’d do, etc.
I wasn’t expecting to get back with him but I was really happy to see him and at least have a friend in the city!
AND THEN HE VANISHED. I texted him after I got settled in letting him know I was here & asked when we could meet up. No response. I didn’t think anything of it at the time. I called the next day, no answer.
It’s been a week and I haven’t heard a peep from him. Although the f*]cker still watches all of my Instagram stories so I know he’s alive and well somewhere.
I’m hurt and impossibly confused. It’s easy to ghost a one night stand or rando from Tinder but I have years of history here. Why would someone make such a fuss over how much they want to see you & then disappear?
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