Am I being too naive?

So i [20F] met this guy [22M] through bumble, we instantly clicked like the convos flowed really well. Been talking for like 3 weeks and we finally met yesterday, i went where he lives which was like 9 min car ride from where a live, i know the area since i grew up there, so it wasn'ta hastle for me since we both don't have a car but i got a ride. And my plan was to hang out in the park while the sun was out, but thats didn't happened he said if we could meet later and we stayed till 12am (8-12) we smoked some weed and drank a beer we hung out in his place for a bit and i called it a night cause i was bit high. Didn't felt like i was in danger or anything just uncomfortable when he tried selling weed and i was just like -_- but i had fun, we talked a lot of deep stuff and our personal traumas, etc but my fam makes me feel like I'm giving too much or like im making it easier for him. Like this is my first time I've ever been on a "date" even tho it wasn't one, but like I've never had a bf or hang out with someone who i can potentially date so I'm conflicted, like this guy seems like a good guy but it's giving me a "Just started caring about myself" type of person since he said he just started meditating and working out and caring about himself, his house was a bit messy but he has told me he's deep cleaning his house, he lives alone with his cat, he really doesn't have family around like i do, but i guess he liked that cause he said that's important to him. We did planned to watch a movie on his place this next week, and i agreed as long it was before sunset and he said yeah. So like what's your opinion? I don't just wanna be biased and trust my family, bc i get for them is a side of me they never saw, but like i am an adult and i am confident that i do the right decisions, but they are making me question myself.

edit: grammar and added more about him.