Am I being too picky?

A friend recently said I was being too picky when I said I wanted someone who is

1. a non smoker, and

2. reasonably fit.

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Both are mostly for generally living a healthy lifestyle. The reasonably fit is also partially because I used to get in minor fights with my ex about not even being willing on going on walks down to the local park. I was lucky to be able to do anything that wasn't watching tv or going out for food with her more than once a month.

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I know that I would be considered like a 4 or 5 in regards to looks, but I am reasonably fit myself and I would like to do activities with whoever I might end up with.

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I can explain anything further if you want.

And please note I'm not trying to say there is anything wrong with not fitting into that, it is just what I would prefer to have in a life partner.