So 6 months ago I (22F) met a guy (23M), we both bonded very fast, in not even a week, since we were both leaving to go work overseas for 6 months. Before leaving we told each other we were not exclusive and we could do whatever we wanted, as long as we find each other again when we would come back. We wrote each other letters, talked for a bit… and in the most recent letter he wrote me, he said he wanted to take things A BIT MORE SLOW WHEN WE WILL BE BOTH BACK.
And now that we are back, he doesn’t seem to give two flying fucks. We saw each other twice in 2 weeks, he tried to make a move on me on the first night we were together CONSIDERING he wanted to take things slow? Unprotected sex on the second date? Doesn’t kiss me hello or goodbye? He also went away for the first two weeks I was back.
It seems like he seems a bit less interested, but I’m getting MIXED SIGNALS. Taking things slow but wanting to fuck on the first date? Saying he wants to build a serious relationship with me but then ghosts me for 2 weeks?
Maybe I’m being a bit paranoid and over reading between the lines, but I really need advice on this one.
submitted by /u/_dejaaentendu
[link] [comments]
