I (F22)don’t feel like I am a super clingy person at all. I don’t bother my (M22) bf to text me all the time or call me. He gets distant sometimes and I try to back off and give him space. He says he runs out of things to say sometimes or he’s upset about something and needs time to himself.
I wonder if I’m being too clingy by being so available and answering his texts so quickly. Normally I have things going on but with the current situation I’m at home with a TON of free time. He said to me one time on the phone that this was probably the most excitement I had that day. Even though I try not to be clingy and I hold back a lot with how much I text, he knows I don’t really have friends that I talk to. So he’s the one I mainly talk with.
Could he being feeling this pressure to talk to me because he knows I’m bored at home even if I don’t bother him too much. I text him here and there to ask how his days going and that’s it. Then he’ll say he’s going to bed and it’s early, so I know he wants to stop talking at that point.
Does it sound like I’m being clingy by not having much going on in my life right now and being too available. I feel like I’m already holding back so much and he gives the impression that I’m clingy.
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