There’s this idea floating around the Internet that a man’s 30s is the prime of his life and the best time for dating because then he’ll have so many more options. All those girls who turned their noses up at him in their attractive prime will be dying to go out with him. I’m a 21 year old guy who has had no luck with women whatsoever and if it really does get better in my 30s I don’t care. At this point, I don’t even want the satisfaction. Should I be grateful that I could be the guy who gets the girl after she had her fun in her more youthful years while I was working to establish myself? Like what the hell? That sounds like such a terrible trade off. I get to spend my 20s lonely and outcasted so that the same women who’d ignore me now will be willing to date me in my 30s.. fuxk that. By that age I’ll be so much more jaded because I’ve already given up. Wasn’t there a point in time where a girl would stick with a man who was just getting started and support him in his endeavors rather than have her fun throughout her 20s and hit a buzzer beater last second with the guy who she’s finally come around to appreciate. Yeah, fuck the whole dating game. If that’s the way things are now then I don’t want to partake in it anyway.
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