Am I weird for not feeling comfortable going to a guy/girls place for a first date?

Seems like the norm for dating apps like Tinder is for Netflix and chill type dates. Which I don’t have a problem with but I kinda am a little terrified of going to a strangers place before I’ve even met them in person. And maybe I’m dumb but I feel like there’s this whole layer of expectation that if I go to someone’s place that I will have to sleep with them. I know not everyone is like that but… come on, I’m not stupid. I get that with current restrictions there’s not a lot we can do but I hate how as soon as I mention that I’d like to meet someone in person before going to their place, they ghost me. Is this just normal and I’m weird or something or what?

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