It may sounds really crazy how I explain this. There's a fear of approaching a woman and it causes me to have this chest pressure just even thinking about it. It's a scary feeling due to experiences of bad sex from a porn habit and several women through out life being either crappy, manipulative or dishonest. The feeling of being with somebody is comforting. However, putting out the vibe that taking you on a date seems like a giant task. Along with this, the embarrassment of rejection plays in the mind as there is an prospect on the horizon. The last thing that is needed is to go out, getting to know somebody and being vunerable to somebody, knowing that they can possibly emotionally manipulate you or use your vunerability against you. There has been emotional abuse for a long time with a parent and over coming that has put the senses on high alert. That's what the situation is composed of. Thank everybody for the time reading this.
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