Hi
I tried to put myself out there after a break up last year, and seem to be doing poorly.
I hung out with this guy once, who I known a while from work, asked for his number then got rejected later on when I asked him out. Took a while to get over it as I'ved never asked anybody out before, and it really knocked my confidence. Now I believe I've ruined that coworker friendship we had.
Recently stopped seeing another guy he was my friend but also my ex's old housemate/friend. We got on so well, he was really affectionate and loving. I told him I loved him. But after lockdown started he drifted and wanted to be friends agian especially cause we had to tell my ex what we were doing. That broke my heart and I know it was such a quick fling only two months and only I've known him for a bit longer becuase of my ex. But I thought we could be long term and I've never felt like that before. I realised I must have been really intense and he panicked and told me he wasn't ready for something like that.
I tried to get over him by tinder and talking to other people. Met this 'perfect' guy. Like he ticks all my boxes. It's only been 2 weeks and I'm already falling for him. I cried cause he didn't reply after I mentioned height in a not mean way.
I know I'm going to break my heart again but I can't seem to stop falling in love. I feel childish. I shouldn't be acting like this. I need to get a grip. I always rush into relationships and ruin them
Please please any advice would be amazing.
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