I (30f) met a guy (40m) online. He is a phys therapist. Anyway so we met up the first time but haven’t really made plans for the second time, even though we had talked about it. We are pretty busy and honestly i am pretty busy too with stuff. I reached out to him to ask a question about pain I’m having in certain area and if he has a recommendation on a place to go. Anyway we were chatting back and forth about it and he has a lot of expertise in this area and was talking to me about it. He said we should meet up and he can show me some stretches to help etc. I told him when I was free. He invited me to his place as it would be easier (which I get cause that would be weird in public) and said I could go in his pool after which could help. He also joked about a butt massage feeling good since it’s my lower back that hurts. Kind of weird thing to say but whatever. I get why he asked but at the same time I don’t feel comfortable going to any guys house after I’ve only met him once. He’s attractive and stuff and smart but I would never go to a guys house this early on. What do I say? I am pretty sure he would try to have sex with me and I’m sure it would be easy to move to that if he is stretching my legs and stuff. He has already made some flirty comments, nothing that makes me uncomfortable, but I can tell he is probably like that since he hasn’t made much of an effort to see me a second time and now is.
TLdr invited to his house for the second meeting and need some advice
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