Anyone else feel they need to get their sh* together before dating, but that it will take them literally years?

Some things can be sorted out short term, others can’t. I think the totality of my situation will keep me busy for 2-3 years. How do you guys handle not feeling your best dateable self with such a long way to go? I miss having someone, at least casually, but don’t feel like putting myself out there at all.