Anyone ever pay to go out on dates? Like for X amount of money, pay them to go on a date with you. No sex, nothing complicated, just a regular date for a couple hours, then go your separate ways. I realize that’s not allowed on most dating sites but I’m sure there are ways with so many people looking for money.
Reason I ask, is that I’m 31 M, pretty average guy, but I’m beyond over online games. I haven’t gone out on an actual date with a lady in a long time. To even get to that point is exhausting. It’s play the texting game and either she replies once every two weeks or is too busy to do anything anytime soon. I’ve wasted literal months and years trying to pursue something serious with someone just for them to ghost me after mixed feelings. I just want the sensation of an actual date again with a lady I’m actually attracted to.
Yes, I’ve tired the whole “go out and be social” thing. I don’t go to school, I don’t have any extra curricular activities that magic me into these environments with women present. I have self contained hobbies that I enjoy that make me happy but don’t fill my void of loneliness.
I understand paying for dates would never get me into a LTR, and long term they would be bad, but what they could do is net me a date now, instead of fighting for interest for days or weeks. Prevent me from catching feelings, because money, and I fix my loneliness issue and go back to doing my own thing.
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