anyone ever text their date something fairly normal and INSTANTLY regret it? idk, it could just be something like ‘you ok? <3’ and i instantly start thinking: omg what if i came across as too needy, the heart was too much, maybe i should have replied more nonchalantly etc etc. cause yesterday i was texting my bf and he was frustrated about the studying he was doing, so i replied quite spontaneously and suggested some things he could do to calm down and said i’d cook something for him if i was there etc but for some reason i feel really embarrassed about it? like, it’s the morning after and i’m still physically cringing about it. cause usually i’m quite cool and relaxed with my replies, and i’ll throw a joke in there to make light of things so, because i was cringing at myself, i tried to make things better by throwing in a joke about how he could let of steam etc and for some reason i feel like i made it WORSE. and then he replied and i was so embarrassed that i said ‘i’m sorry if the advice i gave was cheesy or obnoxious’ along with a ‘goodnight and sweet dreams’ etc and he didn’t reply and still hasn’t lol.
i know you’re all gonna say i’m overthinking and I KNOW, i have PMS right now and it’s making my overthinking so much worse lol. just needed to get that off my chest and hopefully get some reassurance that i’m definitely overreacting. i’m so fucking awkward ahahaahah.
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