Hey all,
I'd been video calling this girl I met on a dating app for about a month. The country I'm in has just got it's social distancing limits relaxed so I went by her place and we cooked dinner with some music on.
It was a bit weird since meeting each other in person but after a while I got comfortable. I kind of just did the dishes while she cooked (I felt bad that the sink was full). Anyway, we had a good dinner and I thought things were going well – we hugged bye (I'm a bit if a slow burner so don't kiss early on in a relationship).
Today she messages that she's not really into it and feels like our personalities don't match. I completely understand if it's more of a physical issue, because our personalities seemed to match video calling.
A big insecurity of mine is recently shaved my head as my hair was thinning (mid 20s male, me pattern baldness). In my dating app photos I had full hair but on video calls she asked if I could grow it out. I said probably not as I'm balding, she was cool with it it seems- but part of me thinks this is why she doesn't want to move forward.
Asking her won't change a thing about our dating ending, and I've got no problem about girls being less attracted to me with no hair now but I kind of want to know the brutal truth.
Do you guys think I should message her politely and ask about it? I don't want her to feel bad about it too though.
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