I know the fact that I even have to ask the question is probably a bad sign but at the same time, I know I don’t really want to date for a couple months While this virus is going around for safety of myself and others. I don’t want to date anyone else/multiple people but I wouldn’t mind dating this one guy. As it would be less messy in terms of virus contraction. (Weird way to think of it I know) Now the main issue has been that I have been the one to keep the communication open. They don’t initiate. And I know that this is also a bad sign..there clearly not interested right? Well they always text back fast so good sign? ..they seem nice in the replies and seem interested in my response even remembering our previous conversations which was honestly a month ago but I once again initiated it. their older than me, and are still working, granted from home but still. They do have a lot of things going on in their life currently. So I’m wondering if 1.I’m being needy 2.they just don’t really like texting 3. They are busy..but I don’t think this can really be applied 4. There not into me and or 5.They don’t see me as a potential relationship I really liked this guy he is my first couple dates and even kiss..so clearly in new to this, and don’t want to make a terrible mistake. I’m 24 their 29. I’ve been alone and happy with that but was so excited to maybe be in a relationship with someone I genuinely liked. Should I just ask them if they want to date when this quartern is over. Should I also ask if he is interested in dating me? I want clear up how they might or might not feel about me. But afraid they I may be putting him on the spot with this question, and potentially being needy and not taking a hint.
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