I was talking to my coworker yesterday about how I have tried tinder 5 separate times and each time for 9 months. I have never gotten a match on there and don’t have much success in the real world either when it comes to dating. I have tried different photos, and bios on dating apps and still no luck. Nonetheless, my coworker was telling me to lie to girls so that they like me, or to change everything about myself. I dont really think either of those are the right thing to do. However my, “just be yourself and do things that you like to do and hopefully meet someone who shares similar interests while I do them” technique isn’t really working based on my results. Which way should I go about it? The way my coworker told me (lie and change everything about myself) or ( just be myself and hopefully meet someone when I am out doing my hobbies)?