I ( 19M ) met this woman ( 19F turning 20 in 12 days ) on tinder just before lockdown. ( nearly 10 weeks ago now ) At first I really enjoyed texting with her becuase she would actually reply and sound interested and interesting. Only problem was I have never been in a relationship and all I knew was if a girl looked cute I should go chat to her/text her. Her photos weren’t great on tinder so checked her out on instagram , she wasn’t who I usually would speak to in terms of appearance , but I thought she had a differnt kind of beati to her ( one that doesnt follow the standards of society).

Anyway we keep chatting and we move off tinder, this is where I delete the app as I was speaking to her whenever I would have used the app. I’ve been speaking to her now pretty much non – stop this entire lockdown. ( maybe 1 or 2 days off here and there) We have calls that last up to 90min and I just feel so comfortable speaking to her and it’s the highlight of my day. She’s just has all these amazing qualities but I haven’t been able to meet her yet IRL. She’s been super busy at her job and I don’t wanna ask anymore becuase I feel I will seem needy. I just can’t get this woman out my head and it’s not like I want her gone , its the complete opposite just I am feeling I am thinking about her too much and its distracting me from my work. This is honeslty the first time I’ve felt like this about someone , I don’t think you can feel like this just based on appearance.

Any advice would be appreaciated , I have no relationship experience so all of this is very new to me.