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Should I give her an ultimatum for meeting up

I(19M)have Been speaking to a woman (F20 ) for close to 3 months now , we call each other almost every night , I feel I can speak to her about anything and visa versa.

Thing is we haven’t met up due to lockdown and she has a fairly new job. ( started in feb but due to lockdown only really started in late April )

I honestly feel like I’m in a relationship with the way we talk to each other etc but it’s gotten to a point where I need to meet up , what should I do? I really love speaking to her , she is someone I feel I have very strong chemisty and I dont want to lose her but should I tell her :

” I’m don’t think I can keep this relationship up online anymore , if you wanna meet up I would love to see you , but if not please let me know. I’m just feeling hurt you couldn’t have made time to see me.” – she said she would let me know when she’s free but everytime its work.

Please help

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1 by mistake condescending comment and now I feel like it’s over

I ( 19M ) have been speaking to a woman (19F) from the beginning of lockdown , a bit more then 10 weeks now , we havent been able to meet due to the lockdown and she hasn’t been able to get off work.

We chat almost every day texting and calling and I always tease her about how early she goes to sleep which is around 8:30pm . Tonight I did the same and said ” I’ll talk to you tommorrow becaude I bet youll be sleeping when I get back from dinner” , she then took offense to that and like the idoit I am I said ” we will see ” with a kissing emojie. Now she got mad and I apologize understanding she was upset. But now im just worried that Im gonna lose someone I care about. I Really havent met someone who Ive spoken to for 2 hours while sitting on a cold rock at the beach at 11pm at night , speaking about nonescene and enjoying every moment of it.

What should I do , I apologized, should I give her space and not message/ call her for a bit ? Please help.

Edit : texts https://imgur.com/a/Dsk9WRl

I know it seems like im being weirdly affectionate but we speak like that to each other , all the time. We were on a 45 min call before this conversation tonight and she was telling me how she had a dream about me.

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