So I’m a 27 year old who’s never had a girlfriend. I do a fair bit of dating, going on a date with a new girl every 1-2 months but I typically don’t go for second dates with most – I’m very picky and quite decisive when dating. There’s probably been three girls in the last 5 years that I’ve been on dates with that I saw relationship potential with.

When I first graduated from college I moved to a big city and worked a very intense job and wasn’t really able to date during this and I went to an all boys school before college which I guess are part of the explanation why I didn’t meet anyone during those times.

The last few years I’ve been able to date a bit more but I can’t help but feel like I’ve missed out on ‘relationship experience’ and wondered whether this would be off putting to girls?

I’ve been wondering whether I should just go have a relationship with someone I’m not convinced about just to get some experience as I think my lack of relationship experience really damaged the last girl I was dating for a couple of months. But then I also suspect I would be a terrible boyfriend if I wasn’t 100% committed to someone so I don’t know.