I am woman and I’m still pretty young and have never dated before. I want to have a partner in the future but something I am dead set about is using condoms. I won’t accept condomless sex (even oral), even after marriage. When should I warn a man of that ? On the first date ? The moment he asks to be in a relationship with me ? Or is it better to wait a few months ? I feel like if I don’t tell the guy he might feel like I deceived him and not want to date anymore, so I think the best option would be to say on the first date and neither of us will waste our time. Something along the lines of :”I just need you to know that if we do end up being together, we are never gonna have sex without a condom. Ever. Even oral sex.Even if we are married for 30 years. Knowing that, do you still want to date me ?”