Hi !

I have known this girl for roughly a year and she is cool. however I have noticed she can be really extreme or explosive which lead me to be very cautious.

Three things have happened

1. We set up a date and then about 30 minutes before she moved the goal posts . she wanted me to walk 2 miles to see her even though I offered to pay for her taxi/cab. she exploded at me and refused to talk to me so i left it and worked on myself.

2. We went to a rugby game she did apologise and bought me alot of drinks. then we kissed but then straight after she went away and tried flirting with other guys. SoI i figured , forget this plus she has a child.

3. I told her about a month later I started dating someone which I knew for about 9 years ( we ALWAYS! liked each other but we were never single until now) We didnt work out but great friend who made me a better man for it and pushed me to do higher education! She didn’t feel comfortable with me communicating to this crazy girl so I need to cut her off especially since we kissed. Fair enough

the crazy girl went absolutly mad! she cursed my gf ,called her a psycho, said she only wanted to be “friends” etc. it was really extreme! I just said , I have to respect the relationship I am in

my question! Why did this girl go absolutly crazy at me when clearly she was trying to make me jump through hoops? and I even walked away respectfully?