So I hope this is okay to post here… I am looking for advice and/ or just calming words.

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now, we had a lot of ups and downs (guess that’s normal) and bigger troubles like lying, cheating, stuff like that. Both mentally sick. We are trying to make it work nevertheless.

Since a few months I have the feeling that our love has faded. I know, it can’t feel forever like these first few dates but… I feel like there’s nothing left? No cuteness, no caring unless I am asking for it, everything is taken for granted, sexual life is decreasing, … Now I don’t know what to do. I really love him and dreaming of having a future with him but… it really bothers me that all the magic seems to be gone.

Any advice welcome.