we met in tinder, I am Female 20 years old , he is 22 Dating history: we met up 3 times and we just clicked so well ( at least I thought that, we also had sex it was not planned on my side bit I thought the chemistry is there) and of course after we were intimate I kind of developed a crush/feelings/little obsession and I imagined how this would be so great to have a relationship with this guy. Oh and we met on Tinder so I don’t know why I thought we would end up in a serious relationship because until now , surprise we did not. After the three dates though he told me he moves back to his home town for a job for half a year at least but it is clear that he is coming back in September/October. Keep in mind the city is 3 hours away – which wouldn’t be a problem for me in terms if dating if I really like someone I am willing to visit on weekends etc.

But when I confronted him when we will see each other again and what this whole ting between us is going to lead to he just said it is not going to work, he will be so busy with his job and since we are not in the same city for a time we should leave it. I agreed and accepted that I will probably never see him again or never hear from him again & I was also not planning to reach out. He said though we could meet for coffee if he is ever in town or if I am ever in his town I should “hit him up” like yeah ok. Then the whole Covid-19 happened and suddenly he reached out to me again, texted me a looot, send me memes and we kept talking on and off since March until May (now) and we also sometimes textedabout meeting again and that he would like to come to my town to visit me and so on. Bsically a lot of talking/texting without action yet. In my country it is allowed since 1st of May to see people again and he still didn’t say anything when he would visit. I feel like a fool and that he is playing me, everytime I tell myself I should not tect back anymore and I should not believe his empty texts when action never happens. But I am just so into this guy and my heart always skips a beat when he reaches out to me again ( we just have so much in common and I think he is so hot I can’t deny it.) But the thing is, sometimes in the middle of the conversation he leaves me on read, doesn’t respond anymore but is online the whole time (you see that on instagram) and since I know he has Tinder still I am pretty sure he has so many girls that he is texting and probably telling the same bullshit as me. But I just can’t stop engaging with him I don’t know what is wrong with me, I just can’t give up the hope?! I know it is technically a red flag but I think about him everyday I feel so dumb how do I stop this ( don’t want to block him or something) ?!

Thanks If you read until here.😅