When I was younger I would catch feelings for girls pretty quickly. Too quickly even. I’d be smitten after a night of knowing them. I’d be hooked right away if someone caught my eye. It was a bit of a problem even. Then I met my ex girlfriend who I dated for 3 and a half years and she broke my heart. It’s been nearly a year later and I’ve dated plenty, mostly just from tinder but I could never develop any feelings for any of these girls beyond physical intimacy.

Truth be told I want to fall in love again. I want to meet someone who just rocks my world even more than her but something in me won’t let me. I don’t trust anyone really which doesn’t help and I just constantly have anxiety about damn near everything. The minute I feel off about someone in any way, I pull myself out of that situation usually by imploding the thing with my obsessive overthinking and anxiety. My ex fucked me up badly and a year later I’m still dealing with the fallout. Any advice? Therapy is not helpful for me