Why even plan a whole date, and go through a whole texting phase for you to just ghost a day before the date? This is exhausting. Everytime this happens, I become less motivated, less interesting and less hopeful.

And it’s not like I do anything to turn them away, maybe it’s not texting them till the date that makes them ghost? I don’t really like texting and plus were meeting at the date anyway where we’ll talk.

Dates have been as close as 2 days away. What am I doing wrong?