Just a friendly reminder for everyone out there in the dating scene, if someone says something about their ex like “she was a psycho bitch” that’s a HUGE red flag. If they said something along the lines of “she struggled with her mental health and has a lot of growing up to do, I wish her the best” Green flag!

How someone talks about their ex reflects a lot on how they treated their ex when they were together. Chances are they called their ex a psycho bitch during the relationship, or at least treated them like one.

Another more difficult situation is when you’re starting to date someone who tells you they have been cheated on in every relationship prior to you. I’m not saying it’s an automatic deal breaker, but keep a look out for any controlling behavior or manipulation. Being cheated on by 10 ex girlfriends/boyfriends in the past shows some bad patterns on their end. They might be the controlling type who drove their partners away and then manipulated them into staying when they are unhappy, making them feel trapped. Hence the cheating.