I occasionally venture into the Gone Wild subreddits when I’m looking for a more realistic representation of sex because I prefer real people/couples rather than actors. One of the subreddits I visit is the Couples Gone Wild sub, and during my last visit, I particular couple’s account caught my eye. The couple featured in the videos were fit, attractive, yet relatable.

Something I found peculiar, though, was that the couple were brazenly showing their full faces without being blurred out or hidden like most other couple accounts. It made me want to Google their username to find out if they were actually amateur porn stars or something and had videos posted elsewhere.

I didn’t find any more porn content of them, but what I did find is that Googling their reddit name led to the couple’s joint Instagram account. Their Instagram account was not at all about sex. It was very wholesome and appears that they are aspiring fitness influencers, recently married, they have a family together with her two children from a previous relationship, he is ex-military, and they are both visible representatives for a very large non-profit for veteran mental health advocacy. Their entire life is on that Instagram profile.

This was strange to me. I asked myself, “Why would a married couple who have a large Instagram following with so much of a wholesome image tied into it also post very graphic, intimate sex videos of themselves publicly on reddit? It doesn’t make sense to me.. I get that people have their kinks, but I just can’t imagine that this fit mom who is promoting an upstanding image of herself on her social media brand would also be okay having videos of herself on reddit where she’s sucking and being fucked, and having rougher sex…”

I revisited the posts here on reddit. There was only a trail of a month’s worth to them. I read through the profile’s comments and saw that only the male half was seemingly replying to user’s comments. All of the post titles were written from his perspective and no use of the word “we” or that she was commenting. It was as if the wife was not participating or maybe not even aware that these videos and pictures of them were being put online. Perhaps the couple as a whole had their sex videos hacked and uploaded by someone who stole them?

Being the curious cat I am, I sent a message to the couple’s Instagram. I wrote that I didn’t mean to overstep any boundaries, and that I had no judgement against them, but that I needed to let them know that there are NSFW videos of them having sex posted on reddit, and through a simple Google search of the reddit username, it’s very easy to find their Instagram account as well as their full names. I asked them if maybe they had been hacked and someone unknowingly posted videos of them, and just wanted them to be aware.

Today, I checked to see if they had responded. They dd not, but they blocked me on Instagram. I then went to check their reddit profile. It’s been deleted. Obviously, there’s been some fuckery abound here, which I’ve narrowed down to the following scenarios:

• Least likely scenario: The couple posted videos here on reddit as a kink (and I’m not shaming them for that if it was the case!) but got really, really sloppy with creating it under a username that made it easy to find their influencer Instagram account and personal identities. The reason I don’t think this is likely is because I don’t think both of them would be that foolish and for the same reasons I mentioned above about the wife.
• Most likely scenario: The couple has been recording themselves having sex with the wife believing they would remain private, but the husband has been posting these videos as his own kink/brag, wasn’t very smart about what username he posted them under here on reddit, read the message I sent him before his wife did on their joint Instagram account, blocked me so she would not find out, and deleted the reddit posts to cover up his tracks.

Either way, I think both scenarios point to the husband not being smart with what he did with these videos, whether the wife knew or did not (my gut tells me she doesn’t, which is sad, since that is a total violation of her trust and she has no clue what kind of guy she actually married.) What he/they’re probably not aware of is that there are tons of websites that aggregate public content posted here on reddit and store it, so even though their reddit is now deleted, you can still find some of their pictures and videos with their faces having sex.

Ladies, if you take sex videos with your men, be smart and be careful.

TL;DR: Googling a reddit username who posted sex videos of the couple having sex on the Couples Gone Wild subreddit easily led me to the couple’s very wholesome, family-oriented joint Instagam fitness influencer account. It was suspicious that they’d post graphic NSFW on reddit while trying to be wholesome family-life influencers, so I messaged them to ask if they knew their sex videos were on reddit, got blocked by it on Instagram, and the the reddit profile got deleted. I think the husband was posting sex videos of he and his wife here on reddit without her knowledge, or at least doing so by making the paper trail between their secret reddit life and their personal identities easy to figure out through a Google search.