Author Archive: /u/constantly-confused9

Is never being single in your adult life a red flag?

I (25M) was dating someone I met on tinder (26F) that didn’t work out, but I’m now in the phase where I’m trying to learn some lessons from the past. She came on strong, always super excited to see me and talk/texted all the time for a few months. Towards the end she told me she has had 6 boyfriend’s and has never been single for very long since she started dating. Red flag? She also kept talking about her most recent ex, and while not being absolutely irate or anything she was a bit passive aggressive about everything. The later ones I’m not realizing were red flags, but I’m mainly focused on not ever being single in your adult life. Thoughts?

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When to discuss sexual kinks?

Saw this girl for a few months. On our last and final (4th time seeing each other 2nd real 1 on 1 date) date, it went kind of terribly. She was really venting the entire time about life in general, feeling like she wasn’t ready for anything serious and felt guilty about not being ready. Later that night we’re sitting at a bar and I’m still getting a weird vibe, conversation isn’t really flowing, and she starts this line of questioning that feels like a weird interrogation. She asks what my biggest insecurities are, I answer, then she starts going down the line of questioning regarding number of sexual partners, any exciting or interesting places I’ve had sex, and starts sharing her own along with kinks and fantasies she’s had. Now I’m all for this conversation but it seems like it was a bit forced and poorly timed in my opinion. Thoughts on what was happening here and when the right time to have that discussion is?

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