So I have recently decided to start dating, but Coronavirus happened (looks like even nature is against me dating haha) but as a 30 year old female who is a Virgin (by choice, wasn’t interested in dating before), how do I tell a guy I’m a virgin, most men will find it weird that I am 30 and have 0 sexual experience.

Also where sex is concerned, I don’t feel like I would have any pleasure with intercourse sex, because I have experimented inserting fingers down there and besides pain I get nothing, I don’t even masturbate. So I don’t know how I should explain this to my potential partner. I would love to have sex with them in the future but not sure how to get past the hurdle of firstly telling them I’m a virgin and secondly the tightness/pain aspect, it would require a lot of patience on their side which I would be guilty of to certain extent.

Any advice would be appreciated, I don’t know who to ask irl.

Thank you