If you’re wondering why they didn’t message or text you back, its probably because you weren’t pulling your weight. I’m a 25M and I am tire of being ghosted and left with low effort texts. I don’t know what to do with “ya, cool” or “hmm” or “…”. I know I am not alone, and I can tell it’s women who are mostly at fault. So many guys are sick of you expecting us to carry the conversation and everything else. Your profile isn’t that interesting and you are never pretty enough to justify the poor personality. If you aren’t on dating apps to date, get off of them, and stop wasting everyone’s time. Here is a lesson to learn; if you match with someone, either start the convo (don’t expect them to start it, this goes for both sides) or unmatch them. If you already know that it won’t go anywhere, be honest with them. 9 times out of 10 they will respect your wishes if you don’t want to talk with them and let them know that, its better than being left on read and wondering what the heck they did wrong. Like I said, I am tired of the low effort people wasting my time and so are so many others. In fact, I am just going to start reporting your account if you ghost me, its a lack of respect and I am going to do my part to get you thrown off the app since you obviously don’t care about others!