So my main problem is women always seem to lose interest in me.

So little background, I’ve pretty much only had 1 proper relationship which only lasted 3 or 4 Months 5 years ago. I’m dated and been with few different girls over the years. So I’m not a novice at this, but i can’t workout where i go wrong all the time. I’m not exactly smart but i pride myself on being able to workout my problems. I’ve looked at myself over the years seen things i needed to change an changed them, I’ve always learned from my mistakes but to no avail in my dating life. I’m a pretty average guy, I’m about a 5 or 6 looks wise, 6ft, workout, slim but toned, musician playing multiple instruments and general a pretty social and out going guy.

I do think I have a bit of an inferiority complex about things, mainly my job and maybe my brother. My brothers a high flier in a big company, earns good money, hard working and pretty serious person. I’m the poler opposite, I work part-time as a PT (starting out) and part-time in supermarket, I never went to uni and I’m generally a pretty laid back person.

So here my current dating problem:

I met a girl on a dating app, we’ve been messaging since February but never met because of this lockdown and she’s about a 30min drive away. We’ve been getting on really well, txting everyday but I’m starting to think she might be losing interest in me now. 3 months is a long time to be txting someone you’ve never met so i kind of understand things might fizzle out. The txts have started to slow down, i asked her about going for a walk this weekend since the lockdowns easing but she never really gave me an answer. She asked what i was working this weekend, i told her i was off both days and that was it, the subject changed so i never got an answer. To be fair we were kind of talking about 2 different things at once so she may have got forgot but honestly this tells me she’s not interested, because i know i’d be super excited if someone i was in to asked me for a walk/date, i’d be jumping to say yeah.

Also now it turns out my Brother knows and actually started dating her roommate/bestfriend (small world). And he’s actually met her, So now i’ve got the added fear she might be expecting me to be like him, which i’m not =/