Me 19m and my gf 19 have been together for 4 years, ever since year 1 she’s been showing more and more signs of being toxic and lately it’s been getting so much worse she always takes my feelings for granted example; she always calls me down (dumbass, stupid, idiot, ect.) And it’s never in a kidding way like “aww you’re such a dummy” no it’s if I make a simple non problematic mistake she would respond with something along the lines of “are you a f—ing dumbass” with so much aggression and ever since it started I’ve been telling her how much it hurts me and she always just tells me I’m judging her and wanting her to change her personality it usually turns into a big argument, she’ll also act like I’m her servant at times shell ask me to go get her something from the fridge(which I don’t mind) but if it takes more than 5 seconds she’ll yell at me “hurry up for f–k sakes” in a really bossy rude way idk if I’m just being over dramatic at this point I just need to vent to someone