I’m a guy and have all the same complaints as most guys.

I worked hard to get in good shape, be presentable, social, have a good job etc but can’t even get a reply on these apps.

(Here’s a recent post I made in r/keto with my pic. According to plenty people there I’m definitely not some hideous neckbeard https://www.reddit.com/r/keto/comments/h8zil1/one_year_90_lbs_a_haircut_progress_pic/)

Anyway I really don’t even get the whole Live Steaming on a dating app.

You read thru the profiles, you try and leave a messages that will stick out and show you read their profiles. You pay for premium and can see your messages getting read with no replies.

You finally get a damn reply and it’s “hey follow, me, my Livestream is lit”. First of all I have Instagram for that. Second this is a dating app, I’m not here to be a fan/subscriber/sponsor.

That’s a whole nother thing, not sure if it’s catfish or I’m just old but people meeting you on social media, then trying to get you to go to another platform – “hey, hit me on snap”

No! Can anyone explain the point of having or viewing a live stream on Tagged?

I thought the goal was to talk, maybe eventually meet and go from there, now I’m just a potential follower in the reality show of your life.

Just sucks to have to put so much effort and find that apparently the correct platform isn’t even the right platform for dating.

Maybe I’m late to the party and none of you even use that app anymore, if so I’d be glad to know what you use. Not going back to POF. And I couldn’t buy a response on Hinge.