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Should I continue dating her?

I met this girl online, and we’ve been talking for a week. We went on our first date today, but it wasn’t the best. She showed up 20 minutes late and said traffic was bad to which I understood. When we first saw each other I went in for a hug but she just stood there and made it awkward because we were really close to each other with my arms reaching out. We ended up hugging after staring at each other awkwardly for a few seconds and asked her if she wanted to walk with me since we were in a park. She agreed and we hit it off from there. Everything was good until the end of the date when she brought up a bunch of guys that she’s friends with and went to my high school, and her ex who she said cheated on her. At the end of our walk I asked if she wanted to sit down and talk but she said she has to get going. I said thats fine and off she went. I don’t understand if I’m doing something wrong or if she’s giving off clear red flags already.

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She hints that she wants a date, but I want to wait. What should I do?

I (M19) met this girl (F18) on Tinder, and we’ve been talking for a few days. After talking for a little bit, I made it clear that I wanted to wait until the safety measures in my state ease down a bit. In my state, we are required to wear masks in public and practice social distancing until May 31st, so it might be too late by then. She said it’s fine, but the next day, she posted a picture of herself and another guy fishing by the lake and said she needs plans for tomorrow, but doesn’t know what it would be. I told her to try home activities, like painting, watching a good movie, or a puzzle. I didn’t want to ask her out because of my state’s strict safety measures. Should I wait it out and ask when everything eases up, or should I risk it and ask her out now?

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