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We only talk about each others day

Hello,

Me and this girl have been talking for about 2 weeks now. We seem to have good chemistry but really the only thing we talk about is eachothers day. She has a student job in a supermarket so she’s only “avaiable” to talk in the evening. It sucks because we can’t meet in person because quarantine and I’m afraid she will lose interest.

When we talk we are interested in eachother elaborating on things and such but eventually we’ll run out things to ask because you can for example only ask once about what she does, hobbies etc.

What do you talk about with your matches? And how do you go about it? I can’t just ask “what are your dreams” just out of the blue right? There has to be a buildup to that.

Anyway thanks for reading!

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Girl says it’s happening too fast

Hey,

I’ve been talking to a girl for about a week now. Yesterday I asked if she would maybe like going for a walk. This is how the conversation went:

H: Hmm I want to but don’t we live too far from eachother? (50 minute drive)

Me: Oh really? That’s not that long in my opinion.

H: I’ll think about it.

Me: You don’t have to if you don’t want of course, I just thought we had the same interests and a good connection personality wise. Anyway I’d like to try.

H: Yeah I want to try too. It’s all just happening too quick for me.

Me: Oh but I really don’t want to urge you or anything. If you would like to get to know me before possibly meeting that entirely OK. Just know that the offer is alway there :).

H: Alright, I’ll keep that in mind ;).

Me: Perfect! goodnight

H: Goodnight 🙂

I want to meet but I also don’t want to force it. I think that the distance part was to mask the fact that it is happening too fast. When we talk she always seems interested giving me long replies, asking questions back, using smileys etc.. I don’t know if I should bring it up again in like a week or if she’ll mention it herself.

Thanks for reading!

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