Author Archive: /u/Fart_Fortress

I’m confused if the girl is actually interested or not.

Hey there guys! So A week ago this girl on Bumble gave me her number without me even asking or anything. Even on the app she was replying once a day and for the past week we’ve been texting back and forth and she seems genuinely interested and will ask questions. But she only texts back once a day.

I figured she is pretty busy and also probably doesn’t like texting so I didn’t think much about it. She has her own life after all. Before weekend, I asked her on a date and she said Yes (hooray!). So I asked her the time and place in the next message and dead silent. Next day I ask her again and she tells me that she isn’t feeling too good and that maybe we can postpone it until next week. I told her sure and kinda messaged a little bit more about some of the stuff in her message but she hasn’t replied back. Next morning I sent her a wholesome meme and a message just to maybe make her day a bit better and I know it was her day off but like she hasn’t replied at all.

It’s been 24hr+ and I’m really confused as to if she’s even interested or not at this point. Like I don’t want us to be texting 24/7 but I would like a response maybe once or twice a day. Should I text her in the middle of the week or not ? Tbh I’m confused cause people reply within 24hrs but this girl seems interested in me but also there’s like no contact :/

I’m 25 and she’s 24 if anyone’s wondering

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I’m always the "You’d be a good bf but I don’t feel anything with you" guy. Any advice on how to not be that guy?

So this is the second time in 6 months that I’ve (26/M) been turned down like this. First was a lovely girl who I met here. We instantly clicked and things were super good but suddenly she told me “You deserve better” and out of nowhere just left. The second time is tonight when I told my best friend how I feel and I was ready for rejection like I know I’m not perfect but her response is ” You’d be a good bf/husband but I just don’t feel anything with you.”. That killed me!

I don’t blame her for rejecting me. She’s still my best friend and I love her but this line. It just broke me. It felt like a backhanded compliment. Like I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I feel like I should take a break from even trying to date anyone. I really want to date and be there for someone. I love to do things for my SO. I miss that a lot and when I don’t have a SO, usually my friends are the ones who get spoiled by me. It’s been a couple of years since I’ve been in a relationship but things just don’t seem to be working out for me. Any advice would help. The good bf part is because I’m a romantic. I buy gifts for people I am close to. I go out and try to have 1 on 1 time. I guess I’m pretty open-minded. I’m not ugly, but I’m not a hunk either. I’m pretty average and have an average body.

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