We [M,29] [F, 27] have been dating since February and he recently told me that his last relationship ended because he still had sex with other girls even if he was in therapy for that.

He said to look for what was happening in his mind because most of the times he didn’t even find pleasure, but keep on seeking it. His ex presented him a lot of therapists and he ended up finding a lot of informations about himself.

When he first told me this story, he missed the ‘sex with other girls’ part.

I thought that he had lots of sex with his ex and keep on wanting more. But recently, he told me that the ‘sex’ was with other girls. He said that men lie when they say they don’t think about other girls continuously and he’s just not being a hypocrite. He said that even if he was in therapy for a long time, things haven’t changed.

I’ve started feeling insecure. We’re just dating and by now I don’t have any suspects of him cheating but I feel bad, thinking that I can’t trust him. If it happens that he ends up sleeping with a girl once, I don’t care. But I do care if he starts seeing other girls because I feel totally replaceable.

Also he’s being at my home since march and I cook/clean all the time. I don’t want to be used just because he wants to stay comfortable before sleeping with all the world. I’m not sure if I’m over reacting. I haven’t speak to him yet. Do you have any suggestions? What would you do in my place?